Parental Mitigation of Childhood Trauma:  Expert Ideas and Resources for Parents

It is still the case that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. We are now experiencing the worst health crisis in American that we have experienced in over 100 years.

Since it is too early to tell the longer-term impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on children, we can still extrapolate from past trauma. Reasonable recommendations for children and teens in coping with the pandemic can be made.

The pandemic will impact children in many different ways depending upon their circumstances.

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How to Tackle the Overwhelming Grip of Fear

Fear is griping many Americans. In this time of COVID-19 causing the global pandemic, the United States and the world is in upheaval.

Many people are undergoing what feels like an unprecedented level of anxiety and fear. Recall the fear is simply a perception of danger or threat. The thought of contracting a potentially life-threatening illness is certainly a major life stressor.

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An Expert View of Surviving Anxiety and Worry During International Insecurity

Can you define worry? Our brains have the incredible capacity to think about the future. We can think into the future to anticipate problems, envision barriers to success and plan for solutions to move forward.

Thinking ahead into the future is a valuable asset when we are seeking to achieve our goals. A recent goal for many if not most is how to stay safe during the pandemic.

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Four Things to Do if You are Feeling Cooped Up Because of Coronavirus in Jacksonville, FL

If you are feeling cooped up due to the coronavirus in Jacksonville or St Augustine, Florida you might want to read this article.

Many people are feeling this way and it is understandable. Most of the clients I speak with daily are looking for ways to avoid the irritability, family conflict, anxiety, sadness or even depressed mood that may arise do to feeling confined.

Look. Keeping physical distance due to the COVID-19 is critical to your health and well-being. The fact is that you or other people you may come in physical contact with could be shedding the virus and not know it. But, that doesn’t mean we need to be socially distant.

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Turn Your Brain’s Obsessive Thoughts into Calmness Now During COVID-19

Anytime, but especially during this difficult time in St. Augustine during the pandemic COVID-19; it is important to manage a tendency toward obsessive thinking. I often refer to it with my clients as ‘stinken thinken.’ If you have difficulty with racing thoughts or becoming obsessed on a particular one, you need to learn how to stop obsessive thoughts before they stop you. Many reasons exist for folks to experience these thought patterns, including boredom. And now with all of us following physical distancing during this pandemic, boredom has become a huge problem.

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Anxiety and Stress from COVID-19: You Don't Have to Struggle Alone

Anxiety and Stress from COVID-19? Consider Online Therapy If You Are Struggling. You Don't Have to Go It Alone. It can be scary to share your inner most concerns with a person who is initially a stranger. Many people think of seeing a professional therapist only when the pain of not doing so exceeds the pain of doing so for them.  Reach out and talk to someone who can help.

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Best Updated Fact-Based Points to Avoid Coronavirus Now from John’s Hopkins Experts

ohns Hopkins University has provided this summary to avoid contagion. Shared with you because it is very clear:

* The virus is not a living organism, but a protein molecule covered by a protective layer of lipid (fat), which, when absorbed by the cells of the ocular, nasal or buccal mucosa, changes their genetic code (mutation) and converts them into aggressor and multiplier cells.

* Since the virus is not a living organism but a protein molecule, it is not killed, but decays on its own. The disintegration time depends on the temperature, humidity and type of material where it lies.

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EXPERT ADVICE ON HOW TO COPE WITH STRESS NOW AND IN THE FUTURE

Stress will affect us daily. Coping with stress is the key to productivity and wellness. But there are certain times of the year when stress can be more problematic. Holidays, anniversaries, major purchases, marriage, divorce, new jobs, and many others. Sometimes, you might feel pressured by everything all at once. This can lead to additional emotional strain which may prove to be unbearable after a time. This stress may overrule your mind. So, in this article, we will provide effective stress reduction tips you can use now!

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8 Greatest Fears Stopping You from Best Success and Happiness

Fear of success can prevent you from being all you can be. Have you ever had difficulty keeping a simple commitment to yourself? Nearly everyone I know has some time or another, found him or herself "stuck."You have the best intentions but you avoid, put off, or procrastinate. Why don't we do the things we know we need to do to be happier Why do we fear success? We know we should improve our health or career. But we put it off. Let’s change that starting today.

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Do You Have a Fear of Making Mistakes?

Do you fear making a mistake? Does a fear of making mistakes hold you back from greater happiness and life satisfaction. “The biggest mistake anyone can make is to try not to make any.”  A pearl learned from many years of working with this fear and making my own mistakes. Learn about how Richard overcome his fear.

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Anti-Anxiety Medications to Relax Nerves on the Rise in the US

What about the role of medication in anxiety treatment? What are the costs versus the benefits?  Are drugs really the answer?  Well, I can tell you that in the settings that I have worked in the past, almost all my patients were on drugs but they were sent to see me.  Why?  Because even if the drugs were somewhat helpful, they did not eliminate the anxiety problem alone. In fact, they may caused other problems like uncomfortable side effects such as sexual dysfunction, weight gain or dependence.

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Protect Your Brain Now: 10 Factors About How Chronic Anxiety Causes Brain Damage

Chronic anxiety without anxiety treatment destroys brain cells. Anxiety increases the hormone cortisol and affects many brain functions. This puts you at risk for many emotional disorders, relationship problems and other psychological issues.

Anxiety is an unavoidable part of modern life.  There are two main kinds of anxiety — acute anxiety and chronic anxiety — and not all anxiety is bad for you. Chronic anxiety leads to anxiety disorders which need treatment. Talk therapy with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is the best treatment.  You should avoid drugs or self-medication with alcohol or other substances.

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DISCOVERING SECRETS NOW TO OVERCOME YOUR ADDICTION TO WORRY

Dale Carnegie once said, “Our fatigue is often caused not by work, but by worry, frustration and resentment.”  Worry is something that I encounter in my practice daily.  My son had hamsters when he was young. Those hamsters used to run around that wheel in the cage every night.  They would go and go and go but never get anywhere.  That’s worry.  It will prevent you from attaining happiness and success. To help you understand this problem and potential solutions, I will present a simulated case.   While the person is not real they will represent the kinds of issues I see frequently that addiction to worry can bring.

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DR. CHRIS WOLF DISCUSSES 5 REASONS YOU MAY BLAME YOURSELF FOR A TRAUMA

In my work with trauma survivors over many years I have noticed a familiar but sad pattern of thinking. There are many errors in thinking that occur with inappropriate survivor guilt. In this article, I will highlight five of the more common thinking errors that I encounter.  If you are a survivor of trauma, consider if you are blaming yourself for what happened.  Tragically, this is a common thinking or mental mistake that can lead to even more pain.

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PTSD TreatmentDr. Chris Wolf